Custody and parenting time answer different questions
Oregon custody determines authority over major decisions for a child. Parenting time determines when the child is with each parent and how exchanges, holidays, travel, and communication work. A court may approve joint custody when both parents agree. Without that agreement, the court selects a sole custodian and addresses parenting time separately. ORS 107.169 (opens in a new tab) states the joint-custody rule.
Preparing a useful parenting proposal
A proposal should fit the child’s school, care, health, and developmental needs. It should identify regular weeks, school breaks, holidays, transportation, phone or video contact, and a method for handling schedule changes. The Oregon Judicial Department parenting plan guide (opens in a new tab) provides a practical starting point. When parents dispute custody, a dated caregiving history and organized records usually communicate more than broad accusations.